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Memorial Day — Unashamed of Jesus

When I think of Memorial Day, I think of one word Sacrifice. Memorial Day is not a day we celebrate victories or even promote our country. But it’s a day we reflect upon the sacrifices made by soldiers, that accomplish those victories and establish our nation. The word Sacrifice means an act of giving up […]

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(Another) Foolish Questions Friday!


After laughing my butt off all week long at last week’s Foolish Question(s) Friday, I had to do another. I mean really, the lady that thought she had another woman’s baby because it looked like her hubby? OMG!

There is simply an ENDLESS supply of this stuff, and who better to entertain us than, well, us?

This time I found a fantastic infographic that just about says it all:

Let’s do a quick review, shall we? Don’t worry, no quiz later.

Number 1 Questions asked – Am I pregnant? – Over 90,000 women each year expect Google to know if they are pregnant? Really? In my day we just asked our mothers.

Number 4 Question asked – Does farting burn calories? – Almost 50,000 people want to know! This would bring a whole new meaning to ‘feel the burn’ wouldn’t it?

Number 5 Question asked – When will I die? – So, Google is psychic now? Cool! What are the next lottery numbers? (I actually have a whole stockpile of really witty things to say to these people that want to know when they will die, but they are very sarcastic, LOL)

I could go on and examine each silly question, but you get my meaning here. Why on Earth ANYONE would want to ask Google if their bum looks 40 is totally beyond me. Last time I checked, if you do Google it, you will find a lovely woman who has capitalized on this question quite nicely! Here is a link to her Blog – Does My Bum Look 40?

I hope you find this weeks Foolish Question Friday entertaining and please, feel free to let me know if you find more of these! I love a good guffaw! (I just Googled ‘am I a psycho’ and got over 8 million results! holy crow!)

Have A Fabulous Friday!

Keep Smiling! They’re Contagious!

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How To Handle An Online Pervert


If you have an online profile or presence anywhere at all, you have probably been the target of one of these perverted pieces of human scum. You know the type, they start by saying something like this,

“Hello Dear, I was just looking for an old friend and found you instead. How are you beautiful/handsome/sexy?” – fill in whatever adjectives you want, they use them all.

As soon as you ask who they are, or what they want, they are asking for pictures and telling you how wonderful you are. These scumbags NEVER STOP. Even after telling them to go away, they will continue to intrude and make you feel just plain gross.

The easy answer, of course, is to simply block them, right? Yes, but then you are loosing him onto the next unsuspecting victim with NO REPERCUSSIONS for intruding on your life and privacy and for making your very SKIN CRAWL.

I do not believe in this at all. The scumbag learns nothing, and simply thinks he/she is perfectly allowed to do this to people and no one will do anything. This is how they get to the people that fall prey to them. They make their way through as many women as they have to until they find one that will fall for their bull$&it. And they always find one.


You don’t have to just let them skate through life on their way to the next victim! STOP THEM! Or at least make them think a little harder next time. How, you ask? When Police and officials can’t do anything, what can I do? Read on my dear friend…

I BLAST THEM PUBLICLY! That’s right – I have almost 13,000 Twitter followers all over the world, this is not huge, but it’s also not small. I only have a little over a thousand on Instagram, but I do it there too. I’m not picky.

I am positive that you have many more followers than I do, and together this is not an impossible feat. We can put these people on notice that we will no longer tolerate this nonsense. It is just a matter of publicly shaming them into a corner that they can’t get out of until they get help.

The Internet has banded together in the name of so many things, why have we not stopped these disgusting predators yet?

Just Tuesday evening, my husband and I were enjoying a quiet dinner and a movie at home, when my phone went off. A noise I was unfamiliar with – WhatsApp – didn’t even know I had it on my phone. It was some guy that got my number from Instagram – A BUSINESS account that I feel should have my actual number. He wanted to chat, and of course he wanted nude pics. DUDE! I am almost 49 years old – I don’t even want to see me nude! When I told him that I am happily married, he tried to CALL ME!!! WTF did he not understand?

I informed him, by message again, that I am happily married and would not be answering a call from another man. He said ok and went away.

So I thought, he was back the very next morning.  I back-tracked the number he called from to a landline in Chula Vista, California (he had said that he was in Spain – BAHAHAHA) and told him to leave me alone. He persisted.

I got mad, I mean really mad. This guy had some freaking nerve! What if I were just a young girl and fell prey to this kind of a$$hole? I started to have a couple of flashbacks, when I decided to teach him a little something about the Internet and pissed off women.

I blasted his actual number, and location, to 13,000 Twitter followers, and his picture (that he sent me, unasked for!) and number to my Instagram followers.

Then I messaged him what I had done, and told him to have a nice day!

Why, YES, I am a bitch, Thank you so much! LOL

We can ALL do this to these creepy perverts and maybe, just maybe, save one child from one predator. That alone would make it worth it, wouldn’t it?

Have A Fabulous Day!

Keep Smiling! They’re Contagious!


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Are You Ready for a Disaster?


With all of the natural disasters and major civil unrest all over the world, the ‘Prepping’ craze has really taken over life for many people all over the world. So, what is it?

Prepping is simply being prepared for anything. It’s really that simple. If the world blew it’s gasket today, do you have a safe place to go and enough supplies (food, water, & ammunition) to last you and your family for at least 3-6 months? If not, you are not prepared. You can save you and your families lives in a major upheaval of the norm as the rest of the world goes to hell in a hand basket.

Of course, all Preppers know to stockpile food, water, and ammunition, but what about the other items that we sometimes forget about? Things like toilet paper, for instance – definitely don’t want to forget THAT!


Here’s a few other items to remember:

Tools – A multi tool can be easy to carry and quite functional if you cannot manage a full toolbox on the go, but a hammer and adjustable wrench is still needed for some things. Other tools are an axe or hatchet, a chainsaw if possible, a machete, and really good hunting/filet knife.

Pain Medication – NO, not prescription drugs!! Things like aspirin, ibuprofen, lidocaine, topical cremes and such for cuts, scrapes, burns…

COMPLETE First Aid Kit – Complete means just that, everything.  Anti-everything creams (anti-itch, anti-burn, anti-biotic, etc.). Bandages, Vaseline, Aloe Vera. I highly recommend a bag balm type of medicine, primarily used on cattle and horses in the Winter, that can do amazing thing for any type of wound from scratches and bug bites to burns.

Baking Soda – Yup, plain old baking soda. Why? Tons of reasons! Kill slugs, brush your teeth, put out fires (without using water), cleaning laundry, etc. For more uses see here Preppers Uses for Baking Soda.

Unscented Bleach – Do I need to explain why bleach would be good? OK, clean everything!!! There are many uses, and warnings, associated with bleach – see here Prepping with Bleach

Bic Lighters – Yup – lighters. LOTS of them! (I recommend Bic specifically because I’ve never had one fail me unless empty) Have you ever tried rubbing two sticks together to start a fire? I have. Not even a tiny lick of smoke before I got blisters. F that! Or, can you identify which exact rocks will spark? I can, and STILL can’t start a fire that way! Get a Bic! Hell, get stock in Bic!!

Buckets & Lids – Food Grade and not. The blue buckets at many home goods stores are NOT food grade. Be sure they seal tightly to keep food and water fresh and transportable. Non food grade buckets can be used for a multitude of other purposes.

Can Openers – Another ‘Duh!’ moment that can be avoided, NON-ELECTRIC openers only!! This one is pretty self-explanatory.

Charcoal & Lighter Fluid – Firewood may not always be readily available for cooking, and tends to give off much more smoke – alerting others of your presence. Store in those blue lidded buckets to keep dry.

Cotton Balls & Ear Swabs – For many uses, including application of first aid creams, cleaning weapons, soak in peppermint oil to deter pests, and for fuel tinder.

Duct Tape – The Redneck’s Mr. Fix It!! I joke, but we must have about 5 rolls, in three colors, throughout the house and hubby’s shed. LOL Fixed our tent with it when a hot coal popped up and went through the roof! If you own Duct Tape, you know all of it’s amazing uses, if not, just get some, you’ll find a use for it.

Cable Ties – Cable ties can be found in many lengths and sizes for a multitude of uses. Attach anything to anything! They have been used as organizers, handles, hair ties (yup), tourniquets, strapping things to trees or posts, marking trails, etc….

Super Glue – Again, this one explains itself, really. Many things will break or wear out and this another way to repair or make items last a bit longer. Mix it with baking soda and make a filler, use it to close a small wound (this works well, but it does sting, which is why I say a ‘small’ wound). My mother was doing this back in the 1980’s with me – I am still pretty clumsy and accident prone!

Freezer Bags – Stronger than regular plastic bags and will last longer. Perfect for keeping food dry and fresh in portion sized bags, and for keeping anything that needs to be dry, dry. Remember those lighters?

Hand Sanitizer – Again, self explanatory. Most important when preparing food or eating, or administering first aid.

Paper Plates, Cups, Bowls – If you are in a stationary location, and not traveling, these are ideal to minimize the amount of cleaning involved, which saves water, as well as providing fuel for a fire and always clean dishes.

Plastic Cups & Utensils – Same reason as above.

Rope or Paracord – Too many uses to list. Lashings, climbing, tent-making, clothes lines, hammocks, fishing nets, your imagination is your only limit.

Toilet Paper & Paper Towels – An absolute necessity! Unless of course, you LIKE the feel of leaves and corncobs – LOL.

Other Items NOT to be Forgotten – Dish soap and gloves, Camp Suds, tooth brushes and tooth paste, a compass, nuts, bolts, screws, sewing supplies, writing paper and pen or pencil, a pencil sharpener, alcoholic drinks, tobacco, diapers if you need them.

This is really a very short, general list of items to have on hand in an emergency, your family will have many other items more specific to your needs that should be included or left out. For instance, we have to make sure to have plenty of dog food and treats on hand for our babies – don’t forget them!!

Have a Fabulous Day!

Keep Smiling! They’re Contagious!!

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Thrift Stores Can Save You Hundreds Each Year!


I don’t know about you, but I hate to pay full price for items that I know I can find for less elsewhere. Just about the only things I will buy new anymore  household items such as cleaning tools and such, under clothes, and cosmetics. As far as I’m concerned, everything else is fair game.

We have several thrift stores within driving distance that I love to go to regularly just to see what they have. I usually go in the name of antique shopping, but always find something for myself, my husband, or someone else.

I was recently complimented on a lovely crochet top that I had on at a doctor’s office and the lady asked me where I had purchased it. When I told her that I had gotten it at a thrift store, she looked at me as if I had just told her I had some really serious communicable disease, and she was going to catch it! What a SNOB!!

Years ago, I would have been deeply hurt by her reaction, and I never would have told anyone about thrifting again. However, I am a stronger person today, more sure of my place in this world. I actually felt sorry for her and her husband. The money that was spent on her outfit for that day would have clothed me for year! This older woman was dressed up and bedazzled with all sorts of jewelry, all of which probably cost a fortune, while her husband was in his jeans and chambray shirt. LOL

The money that you can save each year buying in thrift stores adds up to hundreds, and even thousands for some.

Here a few of the ways I save every year:

Clothing: If you have children, you know very well how quickly they can grow out of something before really getting much wear from it. Thrift stores have some fantastic bargains on children’s items! All you have to do is look to make sure there is no damage or staining. (In my opinion, infant clothing should always be cleaned AND disinfected prior to use just to be 100% sure.)

Teen clothing too! If you have a large town or city nearby, or towns with a university in or nearby are excellent sources of some serious bargains for teen clothing and shoes. Many of the students donate their clothing after very little wear just to keep from packing and moving them when they finish school.

Prom and Homecoming style dresses are constantly being donated after those dances, and after weddings as well. How many women actually get to wear or sell their bridesmaids gown? I was in a wedding 23 years ago and never did use that dress again. Finally donated 5 years ago.

For me, I wear an odd size to find in retail stores, and if they do have it, it’s usually something really girlie and too young looking for a 49 year old woman. I also have a sense of style that is not always easily found anymore. I like broomstick skirts and long flowing sleeves, usually in some solid color. Jeans are tough, I have no butt, but I do still wear them often. 2 for $5 at the thrift store – name brand!!


Household Items: Anything from drapes to silverware and dishes can usually be found in thrift stores. I had a footstool that needed to be re-covered, so I found a fabulous pair of heavy drapes and used them to make it look new again, and it matches my decor! Cost $5 and some industrial staples. “Can’t beat that with a stick.” as my husband says.

My dogs are all the time destroying their blankets, guess where they come from? You got it! Why pay $20+ for a new blanket every couple of months for the dog when he is going to have it full of holes soon? $3.50 at the local thrift store, and he’s happy as a clam for another 3 or 4 months.

Like knick-knacks? Well any thrift store would be heaven! A multitude of various types of items can be found to decorate your  home in any manner you wish! Framed art, empty frames, wall hangings, tabletop items, vases, baskets, you name it! You just never know what you will find!

Having a party? Thrift stores are great places to find anything from actual party supplies and decorations, to fantastic serving trays and utensils. I have found gift bags, streamers, balloons, party plates and napkins, even gift bags and greeting cards!

Craft Supplies: Many people start a craft and decide not to continue for whatever reason. Some just clean out the kids’ closet when they leave for school. LOL The number of various items that can be found for crafting and refurbishing is amazing!  You just have to go and let your imagination run wild on this one!

Furniture: Fabulous and interesting furniture can be found at many thrift stores as well. Couches, love seats, tables, lamps, entertainment centers, buffets, desks, cribs, bed frames, I have literally seen every stick of furniture you would need to fill an entire house in one store. Even sinks!

I have also found things like exercise equipment, medical equipment, tools, antiques, and some very lovely people working the stores that are simply the BEST!!

If you haven’t been to your local thrift stores yet, give them a chance, you might be surprised at what you can save!!

Have a Fabulous Day!!

Keep Smiling! They’re Contagious!

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How Not To Let Others Ruin Your Day

Misspelling aside, this is good advice, although it’s not always easy to do. It can be pretty tough, when you are in a good mood, just be-bopping along, when some jerk decides to upset the apple cart of your day.

How do we keep people from bringing us down and ruining our day? These people can be difficult to avoid when they are a part of your daily life, such as a boss, coworker, friend, or family member. However, there are many ways to keep your day on track and keep your good vibes going.

Here are 6 fantastic ways to cope paraphrased from a Huffington Post Article: How To Stop A Bad Moment From Ruining Your Day

6 Ways To Keep People From Ruining Your Day

  1. Observe your Emotions. Examine how you feel, and acknowledge it. If necessary, look at your emotions and ask “Why do I feel this way?” Acknowledging and examining your emotions in an observatory way can help to manage them without allowing them to take over your thoughts completely.
  2. Remind yourself that you may be interpreting the situation incorrectly. According to the article, “…everyone has a tendency to distort neutral situations into negative experiences.” I can certainly say that I tend to do this. They use an example of your boss taking you off a major project, and, instead of asking why, you just assume it’s because you aren’t good enough. Asking yourself what other scenarios are possible can help see things from different points of views, as well as realizing that we tend to do this and developing ways to re-train your thought patterns.
  3. Concentrate on the facts. It can help to write down on a piece of paper (pro & con style – 2 columns) the facts you know, versus the worries, assumptions and fears you have. Then go back and concentrate on the facts. This can help you to see things more logically.
  4. Create a positivity practice. Get more control over your though process. Easier said than done, but we can retrain our brains to think positively! The article suggests that each night we write down three things that well during our day and why we think they went well. In this way, we can retrain our brain to think more positively everyday. The article calls it “learned optimism.”
  5. Get out of your head. Basically, this means to just keep busy and distract yourself from thinking negatively. Do things you enjoy doing, get creative, exercise, socialize, read a book, anything to shift your focus to something positive.  I use this one the most often I think, making jewelry, playing with the dogs, gardening…
  6. Finally, check in with yourself. Everyone has negative thoughts and feelings at times, but it’s important to be sure that you are not dealing with a much larger issue. If your negative thoughts are causing severe interpersonal relationship issues, you may want to seek out a mental health professional.

Anxiety & Depression Association of America

Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies

Here’s hoping that you have a Fabulous Day!!

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Foolish Question Friday!

Some say that their is no such thing as a foolish question – um, have these people actually spent any time talking to people? Because really, people ask some incredibly foolish and stupid questions.

For instance, several years ago, my mother and walked into a local thrift store and a little elderly lady (with short curly blue hair) looked at me and gasped, “How do you wash that hair?” she asked. (My hair is ultra-long – it’s all the way to my ankles! Just give me sunglasses, and I could be Cousin It!) My immediate reply, without even thinking first, was to say, “In the shower, like everyone else.” To me, that was a foolish, if not really stupid, question. How the heck did she think I washed it? The water hose at the fire department? Duh.

Anyway, I started on this quest with my own question – Why do light bulbs unscrew themselves? The quick answer – heat expansion and contraction. The Mystery of the Unscrewing Bulb. This drives me crazy with my craft lamps! Those lights get hot when I have to screw them back in!

I did a simple Google search for “top stupid questions people ask the internet” and found some of the most hilarious stuff I have seen on the Internet so far:

 There's a pretty easy way of finding this out if you gave birth...

The general stupidity here is astounding, for sure.

 To be fair, she may be on to something...

Okay, I’m not real sure how her logic is working here. How, exactly, would having sex with someone else have any affect on the smell of his FARTS? The smell of his Tidy Whiteys, the smell of his breath even (naaaaasty), but HIS FARTS? How?

 Nope, no idea how these two things are related

BAHAHAHAHAHA! For real? The correlation between turtles and orange juice is something I have never heard of. You? The answer from Pirate Man is the best answer one could possibly give to such an question! Love it! (sorry for the adds – can’t edit the photo)

 Things you need to know before you book a trip

Um, no lady, there are NO BIRDS in Canada, just moose and really polite people! BAHAHAHA! WTH?

 Someone skipped a few science lessons

Kid, you’re right, they are totally made up, it’s all in your head. LOL. Before you remark on the possible age of the poster, they are old enough to spell skeletons.

 Blame the microwaves

I chose to end with this one because it really isn’t foolish, or stupid. It’s a very valid question that microwave people should address immediately!! (Yeah, I’m chuckling like crazy!)

If you would like to read more of these (I only chose the top few, there are 37 on this site alone!), here is the link: ‘CAN I TELL MY HUSBAND’S CHEATING FROM HIS FARTS?’ 37 of the most ridiculous questions people ever asked the internet

So, anytime you feel foolish for asking a question, just refer back here and remind yourself that you are a GENIUS compared to these folks – and they went seriously public with their stupid questions!

Have a Fabulous Day!
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Stress and Bipolar Disorder


Bipolar is defined as a brain disorder that causes unusual shifts in mood, energy, activity levels, and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks. (National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)

Everyday life for someone with Bipolar can be difficult to manage without any major upsets to our daily routine. The highs of mania and lows of depression can cycle through our day like a roller coaster causing havoc on our daily lives and relationships with others.

Stress is defined as a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances.

Adding an unexpected disruption into anyone’s daily life, whether it be good or bad, raises their stress level for sure. When that person already has the added difficulty of Bipolar disorder, or any other mental health issue, the stress level jumps to outrageous highs.

How To Cope

Of course there is the ever-present advice of taking your meds, talking to your doctors and support groups, yada yada yada. All of those are really great advice too, if you maintain these things, you can begin to get a handle on your life.

What about daily life? What to do when someone suddenly pisses in your Wheaties?

  1. Take a really deep breath – slowly. During this breath, think about why you are where you are at that moment – paycheck, satisfaction, fun, shopping for a needed item, whatever the purpose – and realize that you have a ‘mission’ to complete. Realize that the person that just did whatever they did will not stop you from attaining your goal if you do not let them.
  2. Take a minute alone if you need to. Step away if you can to a quiet place and evaluate what actions, if any, you should take regarding the new situation. Then rethink them a couple of times to be sure of your course. Follow your options through – if I do this, this will (probably) happen, and so forth for each option you have. Make your choice and, as Nike would say, Just Do It.

Other things that can help are getting a pet, regular exercise and sunshine (yeah, sunshine! it elevates moods and vitamin D levels). Using light, sound, color, touch, music, smell, any of your senses to create a mood lifting atmosphere around you (a small necklace or bracelet with an essential oil infuser in it is amazing therapy here – you can find them practically anywhere). Carrying a photo of someone or something that fills you with good feelings and thoughts to look at when your motivation lags can also help.

Years ago, I would put a large rubber band on my wrist and, every time I would find myself feeling sorry about my situation, or getting depressed, I would snap it hard enough to leave a mark. It was sort of a punishment for feeling sorry for myself. It worked for some time, until I began to enjoy the sound of it too much.

For more tips on coping with Bipolar and Stress Help Guide: Living with Bipolar Disorder

Bipolar Hope – 7 Ways to Manage Stress While Also Managing Bipolar

Have A Fabulous Day!

Keep Smiling! They’re Contagious!

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A Whole Community of Rejected Parents of Adult Children!

Apparently there is an entire network of parents that are in similar situations as mine:

Rejected Parents Network

And a couple of books like this one!


Get The Book Here!

Just had to get this out there today!

Thanks for reading!

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The Words That Get Me By

My post concerning Mother’s Day must have hit a nerve somewhere. That’s all I’m going to say other than this is my response to the abusive and horrible things that my son said to me on Monday.

(BIG SURPRISE! He actually read my blog. That actually amuses me for some reason I do not understand. He has never wanted to actually know me, but he’s reading my blog? WTF?)

The words to this song got me through my divorce from his father, and continue to spur me on to this day. I do love it so. (Yes, I’m pissed off, can you tell?)

Godsmack – Keep Away

To hear the song on : Godsmack – Keep Away

Sickness spilling through your eyes
Craving everything
That you thought was alive, yeah
Stab me yeah, in my heart again, ah yeah
Drag me through your wasted life
Are you forever dead?

Do like I told you
Stay away from me
Never misunderstand me
Keep away from me

Twistin' everything around that you say, yeah
Smack me in my mouth
200 times every other day
Oh, rag me, I don't hear you anymore, not yet
Find out what it means to me
I don't know who you are

Do like I told you
Stay away from me
Never misunderstand me
Keep away from me

Do like I told you
Stay away from me
Never misunderstand me

Draggin' on so lonely
Aren't you tired baby? Yeah
Breathing life into your lungs
Are you immune to me?

Do like I told you
Stay away from me
Never misunderstand me
Keep away from me

Do like I told you
Stay away from me
Never misunderstand me

Keep away from me, oh yeah
Never misunderstand me
Never misunderstand me
Never misunderstand me
Godsmack is an American heavy metal band from Lawrence, Massachusetts, formed in 1995. The band is composed of founder, frontman and songwriter Sully Erna, guitarist Tony Rombola, bassist Robbie Merrill, and drummer Shannon Larkin.

Judge me if you will, but this is my song for people that abuse and use me. It could be worse, I know some pretty violent ones – LOL.

Have A Fabulous Day! (I’m going to!)

Keep Smiling! They’re Contagious!

I-Have-Two-Moods-Dog-Meme Just thought this was cute and thought I’d add it for fun.